
The value of "success" without compromise gives definition to what success is and what a successful person looks like. Encouraging success at any necessary cost leaves it looking hollow in the long run -- "men without chests" in C.S. Lewis' description. Not a politically correct observation; any number of experts and lawyers (or mayors) will be glad to draw up a plan to take things out of the realm of good-or-bad and make them simply "different." Or to offer a sentence that doesn't actually involve real jail time.
But you'll know. Even if you gain the advantage at the moment you'll know. Just a short word of encouragement to stick to your guns and make your successes real ones.